COPYRIGHT 2012 CREATORS.COM Dear Annie: Last April, I moved into an apartment with one of my best friends. We get along great except for one thing: her cats. ADVERTISING “Renee” was born with no sense of smell. She’s normally very
Dear Annie: Last April, I moved into an apartment with one of my best friends. We get along great except for one thing: her cats.
“Renee” was born with no sense of smell. She’s normally very organized except when it comes to the animals. She forgets to clean the litter box because she can’t smell it, so I have to remind her constantly. The odor can become so unbearable that I no longer allow my friends inside. Also, her cats play with their food trays and water dishes and knock everything onto the floor. She never cleans it up. I had to confront her about this because it was attracting bugs. And when the cats throw up, I’m the one who ends up cleaning it because I know she won’t do it. It is absolutely disgusting.
I don’t like being confrontational, and Renee is very argumentative. Anytime I’ve tried to address this, it falls on deaf ears. I’ve managed to survive this long as her roommate, so right now I am simply biding my time until I can move out. However, Renee recently commented she doesn’t want me to leave when our lease is up. I wouldn’t mind living with her again if she would give up her cats, but I know that isn’t going to happen, and I’d feel guilty asking her.
Renee and I have the same circle of friends, so if I ask around about a new roommate, she’ll hear, and it would hurt her feelings. I don’t want to ruin our friendship, because she truly is a good person and an amazing friend. I just want out of kitty hell. — Always Holding My Nose
Dear Nose: You have nothing to lose by telling Renee she must take better care of the cats or you are moving out. She can clean the litter box at regular intervals, whether she smells it or not. And anything that lands on the floor is visible to both of you.
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